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Momto2inFL
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Last night my husband and I had a bit of an issue. He got home from work late, at 9 pm, and I was attempting to put our son down to sleep. (2 yrs old). He was almost asleep when my husband walked in the door, and then of course, our son got a 2nd wind.
My husband told me after he showered, at 9:30 pm, that he had people who wanted to come over. I told him tonight really wasn't a good night, maybe tomorrow night. He didn't seem to care about my opinion and invited them over anyways.
It was now 10:00 pm when they arrived and I was in bed. I've had a nasty cold, I was tired, and wanted to sleep. After all, I get up at 5 am each day and go nonstop until our son crashes. (Usually 8 pm but last night was an exception).
My husband kept coming in and out of our room telling me I was being rude to not come and say hello. He did this for an hour and I finally got pissed off, got dressed, and came out to say hello. Because he wouldn't leave me alone. I was pissed because I had nothing to do with this, I didn't want them there, and HE needed to entertain them, not me. They stayed until midnight....
After they left, my husband wouldn't stop throwing nasty comments to me about how mean I am and how rude I am. That all I want to do is sleep. Which is totally unfair since I had no say in this visit anyways.
And now, here we are, at 6:30 am, where I'm up with our 2 yr old son and he's sleeping in.
So my question is: Do you discuss it with your spouse when you plan to have people over? Does their opinion matter? Or do you just go and have them over anyways?
Do I have a reason to be pissed off? Because my husband seems to think I'm just being a big bitch. I just think it's a totally unfair statement for him to go there.
Thanks for your advice!
My husband told me after he showered, at 9:30 pm, that he had people who wanted to come over. I told him tonight really wasn't a good night, maybe tomorrow night. He didn't seem to care about my opinion and invited them over anyways.
It was now 10:00 pm when they arrived and I was in bed. I've had a nasty cold, I was tired, and wanted to sleep. After all, I get up at 5 am each day and go nonstop until our son crashes. (Usually 8 pm but last night was an exception).
My husband kept coming in and out of our room telling me I was being rude to not come and say hello. He did this for an hour and I finally got pissed off, got dressed, and came out to say hello. Because he wouldn't leave me alone. I was pissed because I had nothing to do with this, I didn't want them there, and HE needed to entertain them, not me. They stayed until midnight....
After they left, my husband wouldn't stop throwing nasty comments to me about how mean I am and how rude I am. That all I want to do is sleep. Which is totally unfair since I had no say in this visit anyways.
And now, here we are, at 6:30 am, where I'm up with our 2 yr old son and he's sleeping in.
So my question is: Do you discuss it with your spouse when you plan to have people over? Does their opinion matter? Or do you just go and have them over anyways?
Do I have a reason to be pissed off? Because my husband seems to think I'm just being a big bitch. I just think it's a totally unfair statement for him to go there.
Thanks for your advice!