Ok where do I begin.... I’m 18, attending college and I’m stuck on whether I should get a girlfriend or not. It’s not that im not interested, its just that my head keeps telling me….”why do you need a girlfriend? There’s no potential gain in getting a gf, other than self-gratification which is easily attainable by your (u know”.) When I was in high school, over a dozen girls asked me out but I still held that idea behind me, and just said “No”. The concept first came to me when I turned down the most beautiful girl in middle school…and I still carry on that idea to the university. Last week I told a girl I wasn’t interested in a relationship…so I wanted to know if there are other guys like me and if its normal. Most of these girls I liked both mentally and physically but my mind tells me, “focus on your purpose, these are speed bumps that will take both your time and money, this feeling of yours in just nature programmed into you, overcome it.”
Please mature feedback only…. no, I’m not gay; I find females attractive as any straight man would. It’s just that a few friends wanted to know if I had a girlfriend and then, I asked myself that very same question.
