Do my gf and I argue/fight too often?

campbell

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5 times a week is a lot. It all depends on whether you are happy in the relationship. If it's just small fights that flare up and then you both forget about it afterwards, that's no problem, but if you are genuinely unhappy and it feels unpleasant, then it is too much.
 
We fight about 5 times a week. And most times it gets really heated and lasts for awhile. Sometimes we do make our peace with it but sometimes we dont and its almost always about silly stuff that we dont even end up remembering. I end up being blamed for almost everything and it almost always boils down to something she thinks I did. Is this normal? I really love her and we have been dating for 2 years and are thinking about marriage - but I am concerned we fight too much. Help!!
 
5 times a week is a lot. It all depends on whether you are happy in the relationship. If it's just small fights that flare up and then you both forget about it afterwards, that's no problem, but if you are genuinely unhappy and it feels unpleasant, then it is too much.
 
Everyone fights.
But you and your girlfriend need to sit down and discover each other out more before moving onto marriage.
How does your g/f feel about the fighting?

& if this has been happening the whole 2 years you have been dating.. there might be a problem.

All couples fight, but throughout the relationship they often discover what is important and what is silly to fight over.
 
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