One thing I noticed is that the joke that I do to people will not turn into disaster and violent if group of peers say yes to me to do this joke. If I did joke on my own, it can turn into worst and seriously violence.
Example: At football game, when we win the game, if I grab a bucket of kool aid drink and pour into a coach on my own, coach get upset, angry, punish me afterward the game. However, if I got people such as other players, and some assistance coach to say sure go ahead wet this coach with a punch drink. I am surely get away with this.
Example 2: When I go a ride along in SUV with 5 other girls. If I grab one of girl's butt on my own decision, she get mad and report on me. But if I got approve by 4 others girls first, and when other four girls say sure go ahead grab her butt. I get away with doing this.
Example 3: At party, when there is some guy pass out and laid on floor, when I pour beer on his head, he get pissed and got up and gotten into fight with me. However if I got 10 people that tell me to do this, and go ahead pour those beer on him. No fights ever happen and everybody take it as a joke not seriously bad.
Those are thing I mean, I feel like I always need people to say yes to do a joke to somebody first before do horseplay. I cannot create a joke on my own without peers approve.
The question is, is that the way it is? Or I should do joke when I think it's funny and nothing serious or nothing meaning to harm anybody in anyway? Or always wait for all other people to say yes go ahead?
Example: At football game, when we win the game, if I grab a bucket of kool aid drink and pour into a coach on my own, coach get upset, angry, punish me afterward the game. However, if I got people such as other players, and some assistance coach to say sure go ahead wet this coach with a punch drink. I am surely get away with this.
Example 2: When I go a ride along in SUV with 5 other girls. If I grab one of girl's butt on my own decision, she get mad and report on me. But if I got approve by 4 others girls first, and when other four girls say sure go ahead grab her butt. I get away with doing this.
Example 3: At party, when there is some guy pass out and laid on floor, when I pour beer on his head, he get pissed and got up and gotten into fight with me. However if I got 10 people that tell me to do this, and go ahead pour those beer on him. No fights ever happen and everybody take it as a joke not seriously bad.
Those are thing I mean, I feel like I always need people to say yes to do a joke to somebody first before do horseplay. I cannot create a joke on my own without peers approve.
The question is, is that the way it is? Or I should do joke when I think it's funny and nothing serious or nothing meaning to harm anybody in anyway? Or always wait for all other people to say yes go ahead?