do i need closure from someone who only used me for sex?

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i have a boyfriend now..... but about a month ago i slept with my sisters fiances BROTHER two times.... and after each time he never called me... now i feel in order to get completely over him i need closure...wat u think?
 
There is no closure, except don't let it happen again! Also keep your head up and just act natural if you have to see him again. If you look for closure from him and don't get it you will probably feel worse than now.
 
I've been there before and there are few feelings worse.
You're probably not going to get closure from him. Any contact you have with him will likely be ackward and just make you wish you'd never tried.
Your best bet is to try to forget it and move on. And if you see this guy in the future, smile and act casually happy, like it meant nothing. That way if it meant nothing to him, there won't be a nervous moment, and if it did mean something to him, he can eat his heart out! :)
 
Yes he used you for sex so of course you feel like you need closure but I don't know how you can really get closure from this other than just moving on with your life and chalking it up as a lesson learned.
 
Why do you feel the need to get anything from this guy? Do you think he will care if you say something about it to him? I dont think so. What you need to do is stop dwelling on it, it doesn't matter, what matters now is your current boyfriend. Leave the past where it belongs, dont waste your time or energy on this. There is no closure for casual sex, you two were not in a relationship and he owes you nothing, not even a why he didn't call you.
 
Why do you feel the need to get anything from this guy? Do you think he will care if you say something about it to him? I dont think so. What you need to do is stop dwelling on it, it doesn't matter, what matters now is your current boyfriend. Leave the past where it belongs, dont waste your time or energy on this. There is no closure for casual sex, you two were not in a relationship and he owes you nothing, not even a why he didn't call you.
 
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