Do I have a problem because I love a lot of sex?

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I seem to love everything about sex way more than my husband....and it's seems to be ruining our marriage because he doesn't want it as much as I do. Not only that...I tend to please him in every way because I feel that's what I'm suppose to do...but he doesn't...He doesn't kiss me or show me any affection...EVER!
Wow...it may just be too late...We have a 1 yr old girl and a 2 year old boy. I am a Christian. I don't believe in cheating but this has cuased me anxiety and depression (along with the recession and worldly stresses) and I don't want to lose my mind...
Oh and I've been trying to tell him this is bothering me for several years...he doesn't think this should be causing a big problem....like I'm making it out to be...
Becca....I'm only 29...he's 30...He's really lazy though...so that may be the problem. He works sometimes 12 hrs a day though...maybe he just doesn't have that drive...along with being lazy.I know he is for a fact..
 
there is nothing wrong with being affectionate and wanting to do stuff like that but if he doesnt want to it is not a good idea to try and force it upon him...talk to him tell him about your needs he should be happy to try to be better for you and give you more attention
 
He has yet to learn the pleasure of seeing his woman become the sex-crazed man-toy that she yearns to be.

In other words, your sexuality likely frightens him.

But no kisses? Affection? He may be scared those will lead to nakedness.

Sounds gay. But maybe you can play sex games where you tell him you're a 13 year old boy. If that gets his blood up, you may be closer to figuring it all out...
 
you have a higher sex drive than he does. i think the 2 of you should talk about it. cos it sounds like he is feeling like just a piece of meat and getting used.
 
Have you talked to him about it? Communication, Communication, Communication.

and no there is nothing wrong with you at all. perfectly normal
 
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