to her ex boyfriend? I recently found out she had a one night stand with a married guy when she was 18 and he was 26. She is now 27 and we have been dating for a yr and a half. She lied to me about him, saying she was ashamed and that she didnt want me to see her in that way cause she isnt that person anymore (ie drugs, being promiscuous.. etc..) Also I found out she was talking to her ex boyfriend from 3yrs ago.. I told her to stop 6 months ago and i found out that they had been talking again last month. She says she ran into a mutual friend and he said he would help her find a place to live. Her ex (supposedly) included himself cause he works at the same company, and she ended up talking to him about a new apartment. That was 3 weeks ago and they havent spoke to sense. She says she doesn't want anything to do with him and there was no romantic feelings between them.