Do guys lose interest in a girl that turned them down for sex?

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This guy and I made out for two nights in a row. He wanted to have sex but I said no. I found out that he is a manwhore and he hooked up with someone the very next night! We have mutual friends so I see him often. He acts really weird around me though. Sometimes he will be really friendly, call me gorgeous and put his arm around me (and my butt sometimes lol) and other times he will just ignore me. We all went to a party one time and he slept with some random girl there. When he was done, he looked at me and then sat down next to me not saying anything, almost as if to see if I was jealous or something. Why is he being weird around me? I thought guys like him lose interest in a girl who turned them down and move on to someone easier?
 
Honestly i say leave him alone i mean come on why you letting him to even touch your butt?! He seems to think he can take advantage of you and that you're just like any other girl he sleeps with and dumps the next day.. Well set him straight girl and let him know you're worth much more than that! Go find yourself a decent boyfriend who will love you for being yourself not for sex.
Goodluck
 
Sex to some is like money. The more they get the more they want. And to some it's a question as to how many can I get. Yes so many use women to satisfy there on self and not caring about you or your feelings. The whole issue is he got what he wanted from you and now he is moving on to conquer more and more. He more than likely has a little black book or a trophy room with condom wrappers as souvenirs. Stay away from him before you get something you don't want to tell your parents about. My answer to your question is yes.
 
Ewh!! Girl! Why would you even want him after that?

He's a freakin' player and even IF you guys started to date, he would just cheat on you all the time behind your back.

Have some higher standards and some self-respect! Forget this guy.. forever! Move on!! =/
 
You are a very typical "Girl" not a woman, you think that you are going to change this guy to fulfill your wants and desires - it's not going to happen.
Why would you want to have his attentions? He had sex pretty much in front of you with someone else and then sat next to you as if you can have some to if you want it - get serious.

He continues to act weird around you because he knows its just a matter of time till you give it up.
 
Maybe you are the only one who turned him down, That makes you unique and interesting. I thunk he still wants to have sex with you, but he knows at least subconsciously that it is not going to happen.
 
yes and no. First if you turned him down after he hasn't had that many times to try. like just on the first two time, then he still feel like theres some unfinished business he needs to attend. And i guess the yes part where im saying yes they do give up is after a while. if its been so long that you have said no, then guys like that give up. im not a fan of labeling people but to go to a party and have sex with a random girl is kind of crazy. That's about as low as it gets. i like to keep my business kind of private. That's too out in the open. its okay to know you are a whore but when other people do, that's a problem. hints the reason why you never gave him a chance, cause he is who he is.
 
Most guys don't because then they get more of a challenge. When I girl does this to me I just let it go for the night and kind of make her feel like shes missing out lol. Most guys wouldnt lose interest. They just want to make you feel like they did lose interest.
 
He has moved on to someone easier ... and it doesn't sound like he is overly interested in you anyway.
 
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what a slut! move on!

you can be friends with him but dont kiss him or mess around wit him anymore, he might give you something LOL

good luck
 
No it is just the opposite they want what they can't have, so they continue until they get it or after so long they will give up, but keep your eyes opened because they do eventually come back around for another try.
 
It depends on his 'resolve' he may not have given up and is taking it as a challenge, but it's a good thing that you told him no.
 
Be glad you didnt have sex with him. You can be the exception if he's used to getting who he wants. Why would you just wanna be another piece of a** to him? He'll think different of you because you are the different one.
 
...he has moved onto someone easier here darlin....just not you really sweetie.
Now he sees you as the ultimate challenge of a woman...and that makes you great fodder for a man-whore obviously.
Don't be his fool otherwise...are we clear?
Email me if you're not...k?
He's a player....you're not!
 
No. Being turned down makes guys more determined.
They only loose interest after they get it!!!
 
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