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...it when guys are 'bad'? I've been a good guy my whole life, I'm 15. I have treated everyone fairly my whole life, the only time I'm ever really mean is if someone hurts my feelings first. I get good grades, I have a 4.3 GPA, and I'm always being asked for help in school. I play 4 instruments(piano, bass guitar, trumpet and drums), people are amazed at the artwork that I draw, and I can juggle 3 lit torches/knives on one foot. I've been told I'm good looking, but mostly by girls that are a year older or younger than me.
I've noticed that girls seem to like it when guys are 'bad'. They seem to like it when they're treated badly. At school, I refrain from talking to girls because I'm worried that I'm a turn off to them because I'm a good guy instead of a bad one(all guys at my school are 'bad boys'). So before I try to approach someone, be honest about this. How much of a turn off is it that I'm so different from everyone else in my school? Should I start being bad instead?
I've noticed that girls seem to like it when guys are 'bad'. They seem to like it when they're treated badly. At school, I refrain from talking to girls because I'm worried that I'm a turn off to them because I'm a good guy instead of a bad one(all guys at my school are 'bad boys'). So before I try to approach someone, be honest about this. How much of a turn off is it that I'm so different from everyone else in my school? Should I start being bad instead?