Do gay couples argue more than the straight ones?

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I am 24 and I date a 27years old guy.We met 2 years ago and he is so sweet. But I don't really understand why I mistreat him so much.I do love him,we feel good together but I always say something that brings he down.I don't wanna hurt him anymore. I wanna make him happy forever. I don't want him to think I'm taking his love for granted. He's been so special in my life, he treats me so right and he always do the best things for me. I am so stupid. What can I tell him... I am not a very easygoing person and he knows that but still he loves me so.
 
Am the same way with my GF, but anyway sometimes people take out and put their partner down because they have something bugging you or making you angry, another thing it could be that you only think you love him, but you really don't. There's many reasons you could be stress out and taking it out on you partner.
PS:And also its about the same couples have fights no matter what your sexual orentation.
 
No, gay couples don't necessarily argue more than straight couples.

Its just YOU who can't seem to stop mistreating your boyfriend. If you feel bad about it and don't want to hurt him any more, then stop doing it! THINK about what you say before you say it, so that you don't say things to hurt him.

FWIW, the way you treat your boyfriend has nothing to do with the fact that you're gay -- if you were straight, you'd probably treat your girlfriend the same way. Its just YOUR personality. So its up to YOU to change it.
 
im in a similar situation. im a lesbian, and me and my girlfriend seem to argue too much. she knows i love her to death, but i think i am boarderline bipolar, and i always seem to have moodswings and say things i never mean. she treats me so much better than i deserve, and i know that. i try to tell her im sorry every day, and that i love her. if i was you, i would do the same. just say what you really feel. im sure he can tell that you really love him.
 
Start treating him right or one day you will lose him. And no, gay people don't argue as much as straights. No children to worry about!
 
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