Do Cancer's and Libra's have a good chance in a relashionship?

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Not going to work. As a cancer here, I find libra's almost too cold, very selfish and detached. They just like to do things on surface and always have to benefit themselves. But i do like the fact that their very headstrong and know what they want in life. they're very practical like that.
 
As two cardinal signs, Cancer and Libra go after what they want in very different ways. Cancer feels out new people emotionally, and may not sense a safe harbor with airy Libra. Libra's initial modus operandi is to be aloof and observing, and Cancer may find this too risky. Libra finds Cancer a muddled thinker, too tossed about by their emotions. But both sense someone substantial, and perhaps the real thing. Libra seeks partnership, and Cancer aims to create a secure home -- if there's timing, a commitment between them ensues.

What bonds them is a shared desire for a harmonious home life. Libra's fixation on the relationship eases the insecurites of the Crab. This is an affectionate pair, focused on fulfilling the needs of the other. They both shy away from conflict, and this could lead to repressed anger with the potential to be destructive. It's key here to trust each other enough to be truthful, even if it temporarily upturns the apple cart. The other issue is socializing -- Libra may want to hit the town, while Cancer is happiest at home or with a few close friends. But Cancer and Libra don't mind making compromises that enhance the relationship, and this ups the chances for an enduring life together.
 
i tell my clients that it is most important in any relationship to first determine their rising signs. that is the face you show the world and who will be attracted to you and you to them. your sun signs can match up but if your rising signs do NOt, there will be big problems.
hope it helps..


basically, CANCER is water and LIBRA is AIR..

too much of either will cause a SUNAMI =trouble. it would have to be a 50/50 relationship.
cancer is easygoing and libra flighty..
could work if you both understand it all before going into it ..
 
NO. They are attracted to each other but are not compatible. Libra's annoy Cancers and Cancers are too insecure for Libras. I haven't seen a relationship between them work out yet. My cousin and her husband are an example. Married 6 years and then divorced.
 
I have met many interesting couples and the ones that stand out the most are CANCER men and Libra Women. They seem the happiest.
They stick together like glue. Yes there are fights and arguments but it's all good. the passion and love is definately there.
They get through it together with laughter in the end.
Good luck. :)
 
Yes.

However, I've known two libra girls and they both ruined their relationships by going outside the relationship.
 
yes and no.

advantages; libra gets something deeper than what their usual and cancer needs to be poked to get off their shells and libra both with their charm and super easygoingness good at it. they know how to motivate and manipulate you. cancerians and librans both pretty good or at least very interested in arts, librans being male and cancerians being female much better (guessing you are the cancer one), librans' sense of justice and fairness fits with cancerians' over-empathy (if you are empathetic, you should feel what's right to do, right?).

disadvantages; if cancerian gets cranky (and they always do) they will begin to feel that libran is artifical and too pragmatic. both cardinal signs and there'll be power struggles and generally while cancerian wants intimacy librans want fun so that's the biggest problem if you ask me and you kind of did.
 
I say no, and here's why.

My ex is a Libra, I am a Cancer. There was goodwill and there was attraction, and we got along for all intents and purposes. But man oh man, did we operate on completely different levels.

Cancer, like the other water signs, swims in a sea of emotion. Libra strives for balance and rationale, and is considerably more detached from his/her emotions than Cancer. These two have "trouble meeting in the middle" since a) Libra cannot provide the deep emotional initimacy that Cancer craves in a relationship, and b) Cancer's moods and watery feelings are neither understood nor appreciated by the cool, balanced Libra.

The lack of emotional connection between these two signs eventually leaves Cancer feeling a HUGE void... that is what ultimately led to the demise of my relationship.

I do believe that the two signs can be great friends or coworkers, but not the most compatible combination for intimate relationship.
 
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