Do all guys judge girls..just by looking at them?

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Ok here’s the thing:

I feel like I’m not noticed because I’m tall and I’m surrounded by A LOT of short people. All the guys I know are either shorter than me or my height and they all like shorter girls. I’m 5’7 and about 105 pounds I’ve been told billions of times that I’m too skinny and I should gain weight. People get really offended if you call them fat and it’s the same when people say I’m too skinny because I’m really not. It seems like all the guys I like are into my friend who is short and…skanky but that’s just not who I am. I hate how guys just look at a girl and judge them. I just wanna know if any of you know how I feel or have any advice.
 
Im the short white fat nerd. 5ft 4 and waaaay heavier than u for sure.

Guys judge a lot of girls by their appearance and are very often intimidated by girls who are different, as in better than them in some way, ie height.

I'm the kinda person who does judge by appearance, but i still try to get to know everyone and get to know them from the other side. And believe me... appearances are deceiving.

If no one is taking notice of you, then u need to be the aggressor, try to talk to as many people as you can and get to know them and get them to know you.

When you do, theres bound to be someone whose gonna take notice of something other than ur height or size.

At the end of it all, ppl will say things about ur appearance, even i've let a comment or two slip about sum1 i really care about, but she brushed it off and i'm so grateful she did. You should too, but don't go for someone if they can't accept you for who u are.

Best of luck and cheers!!
 
If they are judging you by your looks then stay away from them. People that are that shallow are stupid.
 
I judge a girl by how they are in the inside, not the out. *quote* "You can't judge a book by it's cover." Not all guy do that kind of thing..Just try to make friend with the people u like and go from there. Once you get to be friends with someone, they see your inside beuty. Good Luck :)
 
Don't care and show it. What good guys like even more than a petite skanky girl is a kind, self-confident girl. Don't worry, the right guy won't take long to show up. ;)

Good luck!
 
Let me offer this perspective because as a male I do exactly what you're describing, so here's an alternative thought:

Often times guys make judgments based on looks because they are lazy and it's a quick to way to make a decision. However, if you present yourself with a strong personality and desire to really understand and appreciate the guy's perspective on things the looks part ceases to matter. Once you engage a guy's mind and he knows that you'll challenge him mentally and spiritually, the looks don't matter. You see it all the time, geeky guys with really hot girls, hot guys with average looking girls, it's all about engaging them mentally so that looks don't matter because you're feeding his mind.
 
maybe your short friends seem more approachable cause they throw themselves out there

i think that you are probably in like 8th grade?

in highschool you'l be getting the boys, im talking hott upperclassmen,

just watch no one likes someone who has been with alot of people (certain short people)

so just wait
 
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