Disrespectful sister in law - Husband continues to communicate w/her - How

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do I deal w/ the resulting anger? I hate my sister in law. She is a extremely disrespectful and keeps up unnecessary drama w/in the family... My husband is VERY aware. She has ran his name through the mud numerous times with family and friends only to make herself appear squeaking clean when in actuality she has the major issues. She's a manipulative con artist who will stop at nothing to get her way even if it makes someone else look bad. The cards have been laid on the table several times for my husband to see. He has even had 100% verification of her betrayal but still continues to communicate with her. I believe that she is jealous of her little brother's accomplishments because they have by far exceeded her own. At any given chance she will try to break him down and minimize his success. This makes me angry because she has painted a very ugly and false picture for extended family and friends that my husband is not as close to as she may be. I've never trusted her. It only took one time for her to directly disrespect me and all ties were cut except for the one I love, My Husband of 15 years... I don't deal with her anymore but it makes me extremely angry (to the point of tears) when my other half does. I try not to make my husband feel like he has to choose between us, but I cant stand her and I want him to realize that she is only out to hurt him/us... What can I do to get over the anger?
 
she's pro ably upset and lonely. remember bullies bully people because they have had a hard time or are lonely. now the bully thing is the same with your family. ok you may hate this but invite her in your house and make her feel welcome be kind no matter what and find out why her heart it like this. help her until she can find the good! then once you help her find the good things should look up!
 
The same has happened in my family. It just takes a light bulb to go on in hubbies head before he actually realizes enough is enough. Just stay away from SIL and have NO conversations with him about her. It's hard I know but he needs to realize enough is enough all on his own, otherwise she's going to win if you let her come between hubby and yourself DON"T LET HER good luck
 
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