when i met my wife i was told she was a lab rat (lab tech) and time goes on 2 kids etc etc. she has turned into a workaholic and never even told me that this new job would require travel at times. I made my choice when deciding to quit being seasonal fierfighter so i could be home in the evenings with my family. her job is already a 2 hr commute each way. she just signs up to go places for a couple of weeks. i do have some past issues with her character. she first was completly inexperienced in life and she has shown some naivety and the biggest is that she is touchy feely when drinking and once started drinking she cant stop until at times she is functioning in blackout mode. she has an extremely high libido when drunk. and can be forcefull and then does not remember bing together the next day.