So I've been hanging around this girl and 2 out of the 3x we hung out at the club, other girls would grab me to dance with me and I'd humor them and give them one dance but then I'd say "I'm sorry, I'm actually with someone". Do you think this is making her paranoid that I might be a player or something?
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Did my environment blow my chances with this girl?
- Thread starter Andro
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if you are looking for a real date take her somewhere else... how can u actually get to know hwer with the loud music and dancing and drinking and what not? if u go clubbing, i don't see why she would be upset that you r dancing with other girls.. it's only dancing... but if she's shown any signs that she's upset over you leaving her on the side to dance with other girls... u should tell those girls "i'm sorry, i'm actually with someone" B4 THE DANCE... HELLO!?!
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JadeDpIsToL
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Yes, especially when you just started dating. Seeing someone you just know doing such thing kind of change your mind about that person. Even if she likes you a lot she will feel like there will always be competition would make her feel like giving up. I mean if you just say no thank you, it'll make her feel more like you want to get to know only her at this moment. But good luck.
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Jing!
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Yeah, definitely.
When you go out, you should spend most of the time with her. Seeing someone dancing with someone else doesn't scream "I'm interesting in you".
Just try to make it clear that you're not interested in these random girls.
When you go out, you should spend most of the time with her. Seeing someone dancing with someone else doesn't scream "I'm interesting in you".
Just try to make it clear that you're not interested in these random girls.