we were at the begining..he was my fiancee..i was virgin we stayed in the same bed and i would have liked to .have sex..show a sign or so..and he said..what do i want ..to leave him alone he probably didn't understand also didn't let me lean on him other time..when we were in bed and he was watching..so as i was a virgin before...after that i actually was embarassed and avoided to tell himn i would like to have sex..or show..etc..