appomattox
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So i was talking to this girl from work for a while, well she started talking to me, texting me late at night, being flirty at work you know.. touching my hands and waist and getting close to me, and we went and got coffee once outside of work... but for the most part she always had an excuse when i asked her to do something... One night while she knew i was sleeping she said she can't "like" anyone right now because she just got out of a 7 year long relationship and she was still hurting, she said she wasn't ready and it'd be "unstable".. also she said it's not that she won't or doesn't want to it's that she just couldn't, and that she had thought about it.
Well anyways i told her i understood basically and we still had been talking as friends for almost 2 months, until yesterday when she had invited me to her birthday party... i was around her all night, meeting her friends for the first time, but when i had showed up she was already kinda out of it and it was hard to pull her away from her friends or have a real conversation. ANYWAYS, at the end of the night before i left i told her that i couldn't be her friend because i still liked her and she said she didn't know what to say. Later on my way home i got a text saying "i'm sorry you feel like that i just don't"
did i make the right decision by telling her how i felt?
Well anyways i told her i understood basically and we still had been talking as friends for almost 2 months, until yesterday when she had invited me to her birthday party... i was around her all night, meeting her friends for the first time, but when i had showed up she was already kinda out of it and it was hard to pull her away from her friends or have a real conversation. ANYWAYS, at the end of the night before i left i told her that i couldn't be her friend because i still liked her and she said she didn't know what to say. Later on my way home i got a text saying "i'm sorry you feel like that i just don't"
did i make the right decision by telling her how i felt?