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My grandparents(on my dad's side) told me not to come around because they think that I don't resemble my dad enough to be his daughter. They said that if I took a DNA test to prove I am his daughter *on their side* all will be forgotten. I refused to take the DNA test so they told me not to(and I quote)"bother them anymore".
When I told my dad what they said,he talked to them and tried to tell them that they shouldn't be telling me all of that and that they shouldn't be worried about it. They basically ignored that and told him that I'm not allowed to go to their house,call them or have any contact with them.
My dad told me he wished they'd stop acting the way they were and that I shouldn't be worried about that and that they should love me for me after 21 years. He also told me not to take the test & that I did the right thing.
The thing is,I'm not sure how I feel or if I did the right thing. I feel like I should take the test & prove to them that I am their son's child. But,I mean,in the back of my mind,I know it'll never be the same even if I do that. I *was* close my grandparents,very close. I guess I'm looking for advice more than anything,did I do the right thing or should I take the test?
When I told my dad what they said,he talked to them and tried to tell them that they shouldn't be telling me all of that and that they shouldn't be worried about it. They basically ignored that and told him that I'm not allowed to go to their house,call them or have any contact with them.
My dad told me he wished they'd stop acting the way they were and that I shouldn't be worried about that and that they should love me for me after 21 years. He also told me not to take the test & that I did the right thing.
The thing is,I'm not sure how I feel or if I did the right thing. I feel like I should take the test & prove to them that I am their son's child. But,I mean,in the back of my mind,I know it'll never be the same even if I do that. I *was* close my grandparents,very close. I guess I'm looking for advice more than anything,did I do the right thing or should I take the test?