Okay, so I dated a guy for a month. Things were good until a week ago. We were spending an evening at his house. He wanted me to stay over, but I told him I needed to go home and get some sleep (early work morning). Before I got home, he sent a blunt text saying "you sound busy all the time, are you sure you should be dating anyone?"
That really floored me, and I got angry, but he told me I was being "irrational" and that there was no anger in his text. We continued to hang out. I threw a plastic bag in his trash. The next morning, first text from his says "reycylcing is a major turn off and a deal breaker (he wasn't kidding). At this point, I had enough and told him I needed space for awhile. But I already knew it was over...I did't want him anymore. He continued to barage me with texts saying he didn't understand what he did, and I told him he needs to think about how he words his texts. He said i was overreacting. I tried to be as nice as I could and tell him that I needed space but he continued to hound me with texts. I realize I wasn't communicatin properly by having a talk, but when I'm upset I want "space" for a bit. I told him I needed space and to please respect that, but that didn't stop him from texting/messaing me.
Over the following weekend, he tried to convince me to hang out with him, but I told him I had friends from out of town. He got angry and told me "fine, I guess you are done. Thanks for not talking to me about it and throwing away it all over something stupid". Well, he got me fired up and I lashed out saying his deal breaker was a f*ckin joke and that he crowds me.
He then sent lots of facebook messages (again after I told him we are not compatible and wouldn't be seeing him anymore) making fun of my profile, saying I'm really immature, irrational, I don't respect him, and then he said he was going to delete me off his friends (which he did) and that he was sick of people walking all over him, and that I'm in the wrong because I didn't give him a second chance after miscommunication. I tried to tell him that we just don't click communication wise and we are not just compatible...
Did I mention he's in his late 30's too? But I do feel a bit guilty for ignoring him when he's sending tons of text and not communicating, but he really just did chase me off with it. Am I wrong to completely bolt the situation?
That really floored me, and I got angry, but he told me I was being "irrational" and that there was no anger in his text. We continued to hang out. I threw a plastic bag in his trash. The next morning, first text from his says "reycylcing is a major turn off and a deal breaker (he wasn't kidding). At this point, I had enough and told him I needed space for awhile. But I already knew it was over...I did't want him anymore. He continued to barage me with texts saying he didn't understand what he did, and I told him he needs to think about how he words his texts. He said i was overreacting. I tried to be as nice as I could and tell him that I needed space but he continued to hound me with texts. I realize I wasn't communicatin properly by having a talk, but when I'm upset I want "space" for a bit. I told him I needed space and to please respect that, but that didn't stop him from texting/messaing me.
Over the following weekend, he tried to convince me to hang out with him, but I told him I had friends from out of town. He got angry and told me "fine, I guess you are done. Thanks for not talking to me about it and throwing away it all over something stupid". Well, he got me fired up and I lashed out saying his deal breaker was a f*ckin joke and that he crowds me.
He then sent lots of facebook messages (again after I told him we are not compatible and wouldn't be seeing him anymore) making fun of my profile, saying I'm really immature, irrational, I don't respect him, and then he said he was going to delete me off his friends (which he did) and that he was sick of people walking all over him, and that I'm in the wrong because I didn't give him a second chance after miscommunication. I tried to tell him that we just don't click communication wise and we are not just compatible...
Did I mention he's in his late 30's too? But I do feel a bit guilty for ignoring him when he's sending tons of text and not communicating, but he really just did chase me off with it. Am I wrong to completely bolt the situation?