Only a doctor can decipher all these numbers and find a diagnosis for you, but I can tell you what little I know from having a few of these tests done myself. If you find your doctor hard to talk to, I'd recommend you find another. Docs are just like people

they come in all shapes and sizes and personalities. Find the right one for you.
Something that jumps to my mind reading your post is
postpartum thyroiditis. Untreated it can cause unusually high cholesterol. Has anyone checked your thyroid levels?
The
D-Dimer tests for blood clotting problems, like embolisms or thrombosis in a leg. Clots can cause heart attack or stroke. I don't know what your elevated amount means but I do know high triglycerides can cause a "false positive" on a D-Dimer. So maybe that's why it's high.
Your
WBC count and WBC differentials (Nuet, Mono and Mono%, Seg, lymph) are generally elevated. That's typical for an infection.
Your
SED rate or ESR which tests for inflammation is near normal. SED and Rheumatoid Factor (RF) are the most common tests for RA.
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1429? Is that accurate or a typo? Holy Moly that's high.
The
CRP Q and
CRP Ultra (also called HS-CRP) both check for inflammation, the "ultra" version specifically screens for cardiovascular disease (CVD).
Less than 1.0mg = Low Risk for CVD
1.0-2.9mg = Medium Risk for CVD
Greater than 3.0mg High Risk for CVD
Your CRP Ultra was 18. If you're not already, you should be seeing a cardiologist. Your
Glucose Serum (110) suggests you're already in pre-diabetes. (100 to 125 is considered high risk for type 2 diabetes)
The high
Urine RBC (red blood cell) means you have blood in your urine. RBCs ususally come from things like injury, kidney infection, kidney stones, inflammation in the kidneys etc. The
Leuk Esterase urine test looks for white blood cells WBC (rather that RBC) and is used to test for infection. I don't know what "large" means. I always thought this was a postive/negative type of test?
WBC/HPF also looks for WBC in the urine and it looks near normal.