to keep foot in the door? ? (Lots of detail 0.0) Well I met this girl, melaina about a year go when I was in a weight lifting class with a friend. I was introduced to her and then that was it, never talked to her again. But when I first met her that day she seemed...special. so I kept her in mind. Then about a week before new years I saw her again, she came over to my friends house to pick up some movies and ended up staying for a while. We made eye contact a lot and got good vibes. Then she came over again for this friends' new years party, we hung out and talked, and even got time in alone. The next day I took her to the mall...then after that we hung out again and I asked her out. So far everything was perfect. We dated for two weeks, hanging out fairly often and then we had a talk...she wasn't ready for a relationship. She had long relationships in the past (she doesn't hop around) first being 2 years, second 9 months. The 9 months one ended only a couple months before we started dating. She got hurt by the guy and has admitted that she has no feelings for him. Everything was good signal stuff like "its weird, when I got near you that one day I started shaking" and all kind of little things like that...but then this happens. So what I'm going to do is become close friends with her and her family. I already am pretty liked by her mom (who I talked to for an hour at a coffee shop about melaina and our situation). Melaina put a lot of emphasis on the fact that she probably wouldn't date a guy as great as me and that she still wanted me to come around.
So here's the deal. I want to keep my foot in the door, and by doing this I've considered using some special bracelets I got when I was with her as my way of going about this. She knows they're significant. What I want to do is casually message her on facebook in the near future saying "as long as I'm wearing those bracelets, I'm still waiting" is this a bad idea? A good one? If so when should I do it? Please be detailed, and explain! : )
So here's the deal. I want to keep my foot in the door, and by doing this I've considered using some special bracelets I got when I was with her as my way of going about this. She knows they're significant. What I want to do is casually message her on facebook in the near future saying "as long as I'm wearing those bracelets, I'm still waiting" is this a bad idea? A good one? If so when should I do it? Please be detailed, and explain! : )