Do the wide variety of definitions I have come across describe a spectrum, or do they reveal the lessening of the value of the word "feminist" in that it's meaning can not be agreed upon? At any rate, the spectrum is too wide to be attractive to me.If you can have different "versions" of a feminist, why is it surprising that it is not taken seriously as an identity?If a person wants to be treated with respect, then how can this be defined based on gender? I mean, the point is to be respected, not that your female, right?LUX, I know what you mean by shaving your legs "for you". I know I do it for me because I didn't shave for years, you know, out of "principle," (not an invalid one or anything), but it always bugged me visually, and then one day this girl I knew who didn't shave hers either was looking down at her legs and she goes, "I look like I am wearing a pair of man's socks!" I laughed so hard.....because she was right. It was like where she had focused shaving, you know, the bottom part of the leg was growing so much more then the rest of her leg, anyway, it was hilarious. I realized what had bothered me was that it looked artificial. Maybe a woman's leg hair would grow like this if they never shaved, I don't know, never met a girl who never shaved, but it doesn't make sense that it would, ya know?