imported_love_story
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so i thought my "bff" was friends with me but it finally dawned on me that she isnt feeling the same way.
she rarely talks to me in person. the only time we talk is when we are face to face and there is no one else around. If you add one extra person she will talk to that person and ignore me. In school she doesnt make the effort to see me. Like our lockers and schedules dont cross paths but when i pass her or see her she doesnt acknowledge me or say hi.
so im tired of making the effort in our friendship. im always the first to txt the first to email, the first to IM the first to say hi.
i just dont want a drama filled life. school is bad enough and i dont need more problems. i went to a party on saturday and it was a small party and the whole time she ignored me. like when i was trying to say something she pretended like she didnt hear me. even tho i was a 6 inches away. (the music wasnt blasting either) the whole night i was trying to talk to her but then i just gave up and left the party early. today is wed night and i havent heard a PEEP from her.
so alot of people say hi to me in the halls and talk to me even tho im not really good friends with them but i just say hi. this girl i thought was my best friend doesnt even say hi to me!
i dont want to confront her. i want to see how long it takes for her to come to me. im done chasing. if she asks why i havent talk to her ill just say i was busy. which is true which is why im trying to deal with this as drama free as possible
i remember confronting a girl with an issue and i was nice about it but it ended badly and she isnt my friend anymore so i dont want that to happen but i dont know what to do with my "bff" help!!
im debating about whether to wait till nov/dec. because i know she is having a sweet sixteen and over the summer i was helping her brainstorm ideas for it and she said i was deff invited but seeing how things are going im not sure. but ill wait till then and if i didnt get an invite then ill truly see how she feels...
please comment and post your opinion! i really need everyone's advice
im not a big party person and i just got invited to a few sweet sixteens. im just going to say happy birthday to my friends and thats it. i dont like party scenes. but i know she is going to pull the whole "im busy " shit. because i know she doesnt do any after school activities. but i truely am busy. i have swim training, dance, piano, guitar, psat classes, and work. so she really doesnt have an excuse for being so busy! plus im in all honor classes and she is only in 4 honors.
she rarely talks to me in person. the only time we talk is when we are face to face and there is no one else around. If you add one extra person she will talk to that person and ignore me. In school she doesnt make the effort to see me. Like our lockers and schedules dont cross paths but when i pass her or see her she doesnt acknowledge me or say hi.
so im tired of making the effort in our friendship. im always the first to txt the first to email, the first to IM the first to say hi.
i just dont want a drama filled life. school is bad enough and i dont need more problems. i went to a party on saturday and it was a small party and the whole time she ignored me. like when i was trying to say something she pretended like she didnt hear me. even tho i was a 6 inches away. (the music wasnt blasting either) the whole night i was trying to talk to her but then i just gave up and left the party early. today is wed night and i havent heard a PEEP from her.
so alot of people say hi to me in the halls and talk to me even tho im not really good friends with them but i just say hi. this girl i thought was my best friend doesnt even say hi to me!
i dont want to confront her. i want to see how long it takes for her to come to me. im done chasing. if she asks why i havent talk to her ill just say i was busy. which is true which is why im trying to deal with this as drama free as possible
i remember confronting a girl with an issue and i was nice about it but it ended badly and she isnt my friend anymore so i dont want that to happen but i dont know what to do with my "bff" help!!
im debating about whether to wait till nov/dec. because i know she is having a sweet sixteen and over the summer i was helping her brainstorm ideas for it and she said i was deff invited but seeing how things are going im not sure. but ill wait till then and if i didnt get an invite then ill truly see how she feels...
please comment and post your opinion! i really need everyone's advice
im not a big party person and i just got invited to a few sweet sixteens. im just going to say happy birthday to my friends and thats it. i dont like party scenes. but i know she is going to pull the whole "im busy " shit. because i know she doesnt do any after school activities. but i truely am busy. i have swim training, dance, piano, guitar, psat classes, and work. so she really doesnt have an excuse for being so busy! plus im in all honor classes and she is only in 4 honors.