this normal? This is the first time in my life I've come on to a guy and he said no. I tried to talk about it later and he said he wants to make sure this is something I want to do.... uhh I did come on to you didn't I? He's come on to me (so I thought a couple of times) and before it got to the next level he stops. Its frustrating because I get excited and nothing happens.... I don't know what to do... I did tell him I want to take it slow and so does he. So I guess that's what he's doing?