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Sunshine
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We weren't "official" but dated for awhile, were intimate, and had feelings for eachother. I've never felt so comfortable with someone, he was great. Things got complicated when his ex gf moved back the city temporarily...he started backing off. After being intimate one night, confessed he still cared for her but she wasn't interested in him. That I'm amazing, deserve so much better. He left my apt. that morning and stopped talking to me.
He never ended things officially, just ignored me. His ex has since moved away. He's contacting me again. I gave in and explained my thoughts on how he acted, that it was selfish and unfair. He apologized saying he ruined a great thing with me, that he was confused and backed off because he figured i hated him. Admitted he behaved immaturely, takes all of the blame.
I know I shouldn't waste my time or even ask this question. I do deserve better. But it baffles me. What could he possibly be thinking-- Is it all about sex? Does he actually care?
Was it a mistake to respond to him?
He never ended things officially, just ignored me. His ex has since moved away. He's contacting me again. I gave in and explained my thoughts on how he acted, that it was selfish and unfair. He apologized saying he ruined a great thing with me, that he was confused and backed off because he figured i hated him. Admitted he behaved immaturely, takes all of the blame.
I know I shouldn't waste my time or even ask this question. I do deserve better. But it baffles me. What could he possibly be thinking-- Is it all about sex? Does he actually care?
Was it a mistake to respond to him?