dad just got married..have to break the news?

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So my dads reltionshp and mine hasnt been the best. Starting from childhood up until age 23, from that point we started to turn things around. Now at 32 he has decided to remarry this lady, Cyn. The thing is in a way she has come between us, but out of respect I accept her. The thing is, I found out myself she is messing with my dad's good friend. How should i break the news to him without ruining my credibility.
My dad own's several business'.And the friend she is messing with is relatively a blue collar worker. My guess is they are both reaping the benefit of his wealth.
 
omg u have to tell him show him the texts or he wont beive you so show him before he get humiliated :) x
 
You should try to take some incriminating pictures and just give them to him so he can just see it for himself and you dont have to say anything.. just show him
 
its not ur business, he probably wont believe u... or jus put him in a place or situation where he finds out himself... or however you found out
 
omg! well do this right the first time ! you should try to make him find out by himself, but set clue for him to makes it easier yet you must make sure that what is going on is clear to him! if you break the news wrong and he try's to find out himself she might be able to prove you wrong and then make you look bad and your dad wont believe you. So try to see when there meeting up or something, follow her in your car one day buy dont make it obvious. Take pictures or something!
-good luck
 
i am in the same situation apart from dad owning several buisness, you need to get some proof and then tell your dad whats going on after all he is your dad. i told my dad what was going on he didnt believe me so i showed hm pics that i had got and now he has left her
 
I would sit him down, w/o Cyn there. And be as respectful as you can (and sincere) and just tell him.
If he believes you, awesome.
if not, that's his problem now
 
your the outsider,, he will belive her before he will listen toi you, its painful to watch but either way your gonna be the bad guy, unless he catches on and you can back him,, good luck
 
If you really care for him you would tell him Straight up. Forget about ur credibility if u don't want ur dad to get hurt
 
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