I'm basically trying to find out whether my girlfriend is faking it. I have no reason to think so other then being insecure and feeling like sometimes I simply couldn't have done enough to get her off. There have been times where shes told me "no I did not have one" plain and simple. I kind of like that because it makes me trust it more when she says yes, but still it seems like too much of a coincidence that we usually finish at the same time. Sometimes I can feel her having one, but other times I cant but she will still claim she does.
Also sometimes after sex, she will keep talking about sexual things and stuff. This leads me to believe she isn't totally satisfied and is still in the mood.
Yet other times, afterwards she will go into a weird state where she is quiet and smiling and just wants to lay down. My idea of how satisfied would look, if that makes sense.
Is it possible that she is being truthful but just sometimes is just in different moods afterward, or should the difference in demeanor make me think that the times where she SEEMS satisfied are the only times she actually is?
She really loves me, so its one of those things where I know if she DID fake it, she WOULD hold it back for the sake of my feelings, but what if she isnt?
Thats the thing. If I ask to finish her on days where I feel she didnt have one, she just insists further that she DID. And then it becomes a "you dont trust me?" thing.
Also sometimes after sex, she will keep talking about sexual things and stuff. This leads me to believe she isn't totally satisfied and is still in the mood.
Yet other times, afterwards she will go into a weird state where she is quiet and smiling and just wants to lay down. My idea of how satisfied would look, if that makes sense.
Is it possible that she is being truthful but just sometimes is just in different moods afterward, or should the difference in demeanor make me think that the times where she SEEMS satisfied are the only times she actually is?
She really loves me, so its one of those things where I know if she DID fake it, she WOULD hold it back for the sake of my feelings, but what if she isnt?
Thats the thing. If I ask to finish her on days where I feel she didnt have one, she just insists further that she DID. And then it becomes a "you dont trust me?" thing.