Couples Argue... but When is it Considered too Often?

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Tortilla Chips

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I have been dating this man for nearly two years. He is a wonderful man, good to me, respectful, and faithful to a fault. But, the last 6-8 months of our relationship have been wrought with arguments, usually rooted in misunderstandings and misinterpretations. The arguments happen often, sometimes as often as four times within 24 hours.

At first, I thought we could work through it. We started brainstorming ways to ebb our misunderstandings, but we still battle it out like UFC fighters. Last night, we finally both broke down. We both wanted to know: how much arguing is normal? We know couples battle it out on occasion, but when is it too much? When is it time to admit that we're not complimentary?

We are both in a mid-twenties, far from being bickering teenagers.
 
For my ex and i it was all day everyday, except when people were around that he was trying to impress. That was too much for me but that's because he was abusive.

You two, i would say you argue too often. Look into couples therapy. It would be good for the both of you and you can figure out if you are right for each other.
 
My wife and I spat throughout the day. Usually it's a snide remark here and there about s small gripe we have, but overall it just ends up being fun. If it's serious enough, we will all out argue and that rarely happens.
 
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