Let's say thatyour boyfriend or even girlfriend is taking off to the army, would you you be able to deal with it? not just safety wise but that fact that their going to be gone for a while and you won't see them anymore. Do you think the relationship would last or still work out? Do most people usually stay? I'm asking because my guy is thinking of taking off to the army and In all honesty I don't know if things will work out once he's gone. Is it wrong to think that, if things arent really serious bewteen us. It hurts him when I tell him that but it's what I feel.