Could this be the cause of my wild mood swings?

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okay. As of late my mood swings have gotten worse and worse... the person that's its affecting the most is my boyfriend, and i really don't want to drive him away because of this.

I work about 28 hours a week and go to school full time,
everyday after school, i come home to find my mom on her computer... she doesnt say a word to me, shes talking to some guy on the internet, she picks me up from work, she doesnt say a word to me, she goes straight to her room and shuts the door, shes on the phone with some guy.. i call her for a ride home from work at midnight, she doesnt answer so i get a ride home from my dad i come home to find my mom in her room on the phone talking to some guy. i call her to pick me up from work, she text me "im at the movies, find a ride home"
 
How old are you? Can or are you able to support yourself? Are your parents separated? Can you go & live with yr Dad? It sounds like yr mom is addicted to the PC & nothing else is of importance to her.

Have you spoken to yr school counselor? You really do need help sorting out what is going on. Perhaps a school counselor can drag yr mom into the school & sit down for a discussion. Have you asked yr mom outright what is going on? Don't do it in an aggressive tone or she'll probably tell you to mind yr own business. That's why I suggested doing it in front of a school counselor. You are a normal human being & deserve the correct nurturing attention fr your mother. What does yr Dad think of all this, he has some responsibility too? They are both yr parents & it sounds like you are the adult in the relationship.

Try not to take it out on yr BF it sounds like he is the one wanting to support you. Of course yr going to have mood swings with all this going on, working 28 hrs/wk & full time school - when do you have any 'me' time.

I feel yr mom is shirking her responsibilities. What sort of mother tells her daughter a complete lie about being @ the movies & to find a ride home? You have unresolved anger issues, which I am not surprised @ all. Why doesn't she ask if you've had a good day @ school etc? Is she keeping the house clean? Does she work? Is she cooking yr meals? I've never heard of a mother behaving this way, are you sure she hasn't had some sort of mental breakdown?

Please ask for help, this is too big an issue for you to sort out on yr own. Take care.
 
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