could anyone help me please..?

XxkaytiexX

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hi, i'm new here and i'm not really sure if this is going to work or not but i really just need a few questions answered..

i'm 16 and as of 2 nights ago all i've done witha guy is made out..and thats the way i wanted it for awhile..well i've also never had been drunk before but i decided to drink just for that one night with my cousins to see what it felt like. later that night one of their friends was over and we started messing around..we were both drinking and i dont remember too many details..i'm not certain if it would be considered sex becasue i'm not sure if my hymen has been broken..my question is if there is anywaywithout going to a doctor to tell by yourself if it has been..also if it makes a difference, i have irregular periods and can have up to 3 a month at times but its always different..do i have a chance of getting pregnant or am i at risk to anything else?

if anyone could please help i would greatly appreciate it, i've been worrying nonstop..
 
Although most virgins have a hyman, not all do. Unless you were completely unconcious, you would know if you had sex.
Don't be afraid to see a doctor. It's especially important now that you have been sexually active. The doctor may also be able to find out why you're having so many periods. Birth control pills can often help regulate periods by the way.

Any time you have unprotected sex (without a condom), whether it's vaginal, oral, or ....whatever, you take the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease or infection. It is virtually impossible to know who your partner has been sexually intimate with before you.

The same with pregnancy. If you have unprotected sex, there is a chance of pregnancy. I strongly urge you to see a doctor and at least get checked for any STD's and talk to her/him about getting birth control pills and condoms. It will put your mind to rest. Good luck.
 
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