My husband is very boring. We had our ups and downs in our marriage of 18 years, we were married in our early twenty's. Now he has become more selfish of his time. He is a introvert and I'm a extrovert type of person. Everyday after work he comes home eat, say hi to the kids, turn the tv on and sits on the church for the rest of the evening during the work week. On Saturday, he gets up late, around 11:00am. coffee, eats then take the kids out for three or fours hours to the same places. At the park, he sits on the bench too. He and I only watch movies on tv on weekends or we may go out to a restaurant. My friend and her husband asked us out a couple of times, he doesn't want to go out. We haven't had sex in two months. He has a pop belly and won't go walking or throw football with his 8 year old son. He is so boring and don't want to do anything, not even go to church with the kids and I. What to do? I really want to meet another man so I can have fun, watch a show, go to concert and have fun together. I get really sad at him isolating himself from me and I don't know. I think its wrong if a spouse is not trying to have fun, make the marriage exciting, stop having sex, even if there is problems. Does that mean everything has to die.
Could a husband's behavior push his wife into another man's arms?
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