Compulsive Liars

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beka51073

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There's this girl at my school whom everybody hates. She lies about everything right to everyone's face. Everybody is "her best friend" and "hangs out with her all the time." Even people she has only talked to like once, she claims as her "new best friend," and acts as though she's known them forever. She said in front of her entire class once that she was spending the night at her "best friend's" house and they'd run around on the beach at 3AM, but her best friend is gay, so it's okay... And I know for a fact that the guy she is talking about doesn't like her at all. He has never invited her over once.
Guh.
I was talking to some friends about it today, just why she has the feeling she has to lie to everybody.
I suggested that maybe something happened or her parents don't give her enough attention, so she seeks it out in other places and feels like she has to be the center of attention, and does so by lying...
Idk.
What do you guys think? I have more stories if you ask. /gossip
 
Some people think that if they start speaking loudly and assuredly about something that is completely untrue, people will believe them.

Most of the time, they don't. Just let her continue lying. And if she lies to you, just ignore her. She'll eventually get the point that noone will ever trust her if she starts calling everyone her, "new best friend."
 
Well, it's not exactly like that... See, nobody trusts her anymore anyway, but nobody is mean enough to tell her to go away... She stalks everybody, it's so crazy... We can't tell her to fuck off because then it would create drama for the team we are on, and we can't do that.
 
Well still, just ignore her. See the trick is not to be mean but to put off the aura that you don't want to hear any of her bullshit. For example:

Annoying girl = AG
You = Y

AG: Hey! How are you?!
Y: Just fine.
AG: SOOO I was hanging out with my bestest friend[blah blah until she gets tired]

[Just give her a blank stare. No facial recognition that she is addressing you.]

Y: That's cool.

Let her do all the talking, and respond with 3 words or less. Just put off the aura that you don't really give a shit and that you know that she is the one attempting to give it out.

Works for me most of the tim:thumbsup:
 
Haha, thanks, I'll try that tomorrow, because at first she never liked me too much and I was the lucky one, but today she's been starting to try to sink her talons in. Wooo!
 
i have a "friend" like that.

fucking run. run as fast as you can. this person will ruin your life. trust me...i am dealing with the biggest bitch i have ever met in me ENTIRE LIFE.

RUN!
 
Haha, that's the advice we give to everyone new that enters her vortex of doom. "Don't let her suck you in!!!!!!"


"Tooo lateeeee..."
 
There have been experiments done where a person will just walk up to a group they want to be a part of, pretend that they belong, and nobody will question them, so technically, that person is in the group. Maybe by lying all the time this girl is trying to do that. Or, maybe she can't help herself. Or, maybe she's like my friend and is just a lying slut so that she feels better about her miserable life. I don't know. There could be a lot of reasons.
 
Honestly, I think she's just looking for a friend. Maybe she wants so badly to be liked that she feels the need to lie. Maybe you should try to be her friend? Try to have a normal conversation with her. Or try to catch her in a lie.

If all else fails, then ignore her and RUN for your life!!
 
You could just say "Please stop lying all the time, try being yourself."

Could be the best advice she's never gotten?

I've had to do that for a couple people I know.

One guy I still talk to I still say "So what's new, and you don't have to exaggerate, I'm easy to please."
 
Gah! I actually was best friends with a compulsive liar for a couple years. Last I heard, the kid was in jail school and had tried every drug under the sun. He lied about how awesome he was at biking, playing guitar, who he knew and was friends with, belitted my opinions and the opinions of anyone's that weren't his own...I guess I can understand why he was so messed up with a dead dad and a mother who tried to commit suicide because she's stuck working a crappy job raising four kids, but he was still a piece of shit and if he died, it would bring nothing out of me.

Jane's right. Stay away from these people! They're nothing but trouble.
 
I know some people like this. One tried to ruin my current relationship. She and my girlfriend were best of friends, then she made her choose between me and her. Well, my girlfriend chose me, and so now were together, and have been for 2 years now. But, now her old best friend is saying that they stopped being friends because my girlfriend blamed her for "her addictions". What a whore. I want to fucking send that slut to Iraq to get raped by the Taliban or Mujahadeen or whatever. That slut fucking whore whench deserves no less.
 
Wb, BinaryCow.
As for this problem, listen to Dane Cook's routine about the friend no one likes. Listen to it over and over again until you have it memorized. Then, when she comes up to you while you're surrounded by people start talking about how you just heard this great Dane Cook routine, and launch into the routine. (You'll have to explain to your friends ahead of time what you're doing, so they can at least act like they haven't heard it before.) Then you and the group can laugh it up and start talking about who that person is in your group then all turn on her at once.

Or you can just ignore her completely. That takes less work. :thumbsup:
 
When you look at it closely, there's obviously something missing in their lives where they have to fill that gap with untrue stories. It's kind of sad in a way.

And yes, these people do cause troubles, and it's amazing how someone can be this way and sometimes people just get sucked into their lies, they could make an fabrication up and make someone believe it.

I've known so many in my life, and I always am wary around new people, and told my friends to be the same way, because they've seen what happens when we've previously met someone like this, It once got to the point where they made someone get in so deep, they brokedown when they found out the truth.

So, make sure you watch your back if you are going to stay friends with her.
If not, just ignore her.
 
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