my ex boyfriend was sent to rehab for an addiction to painkillers. he spent a few months there and finally got to leave. he came home recently and i went to see him. we started talking about everything that happened (he did some f-ed up things to me when he was messed up and i broke up with him in rehab). basically, we just tried to work through our feelings and whatnot. he promised me he has changed and he refuses to touch any drugs whatsoever. well after talking about it all, i started crying and then he held me for a bit. things escalated and we ended up making out and having sex. i'm so confused though because i don't know if we should pick up where we left off. i mean my parents hate him and he isn't the best influence, but he is first and foremost my best friend and it was awful spending months without him. i always talked to him in rehab on the phone and sent him letters. he's 21 and i'm 20 years old. i'm just scared of getting hurt again but i don't know what else to do. he tells me he loves me and he says he's sorry. he took me to dinner and apologized. he was practically crying. i can tell he's changed, but idk if we should get back together. i know i screwed things up by sleeping with him, but we got lost in the heat of the moment.
i don't "need" to mother anyone. this guy has caused me some problems and in fact, i told him i'm not going to be his mother and ride him about where he goes or what he does. he's an adult and he does his own thing. he's responsible for his actions not me. i'm asking more along the lines of "is it worth it for us to get back together?"
i don't "need" to mother anyone. this guy has caused me some problems and in fact, i told him i'm not going to be his mother and ride him about where he goes or what he does. he's an adult and he does his own thing. he's responsible for his actions not me. i'm asking more along the lines of "is it worth it for us to get back together?"