ok quick overview i am dating (was about to marry) a girl i have been with for about 3 years now.. she plays online alot and made friends with a guy thats in the army i even chatted with him some.. prob is she started developing feelings for him and he is all for it.. he is in iraq for the next eh year or so after he gets back he planned to come meet her.. i put a stop to it or so i thought me and her talked and if she wants to stay he has to go for good problem is he don't plan to leave her alone and she has gotton involved to the point she is not sure what she wants.. i researched him as much as possible and he is on BDSM boards listed as bi he is 29 mever married and a medic in the army.. if i could find a way to make him get the **** out of my life it would most likely return to nornal (or as normal as it can be now) i wonder if the military would think highly of what he is doing and if there is any way i could contact his superiors and have a stop put to his contact with me and her.. idk just kinda lost
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an alternative browser.
You should upgrade or use an alternative browser.
complex prob with g/f and some military guy?
- Thread starter Paul W
- Start date
I think you should forget him and her both. She obviously is not willing to commit to a solitary thing with you and it is time for you to move on and if you don't there probably will always be some other guy in this relationship you have with her. Heck it could be the mailman or the next door neighbor next time. Write her and the relationship off and start thinking about moving on.
iceprincess
New member
These sites should be blocked by the US military unless he is in his own Laptop. Why is she in S and M chatrooms anyways? In these rooms your GF can get into an online relationship where she becomes the slave and he the master, so I think you have already lost her. There is no way to turn him in, if he is on his own laptop, its his personal use and if she wants to become a slave to an online predator /Master then there is really nothing you can do.
You already sound like her master yourself, well if she is your slave, I think you have already lost her to another master, sorry. even if shes a switch and is playing the dominate roll in this scenerio, I doubt you are gonna get her or him to stop their online romance/relationship.
You already sound like her master yourself, well if she is your slave, I think you have already lost her to another master, sorry. even if shes a switch and is playing the dominate roll in this scenerio, I doubt you are gonna get her or him to stop their online romance/relationship.