complete financial crisis!please advise,do i have any options?

[Maria J]

hi everyone,i would really appreciate any thoughts and advice on my situation as it has completely spiraled out of control,im 30,and am in comlete debt of about 20,000,im on a very limited income as i am taking care of my sick parents,i have credit card bills,electricity bills car insurance due,i do not have any savings i do own a house but its in great disrepair and i cant afford to do it up,and i cant take out a morgage on it as i have no means of repayment,and stupidly i put 1,000 in the stock market thinking i could double it and my stock crashed!i dont know what to do,i recently had to get braces which are $6,000 i gave a $500 deposit on them and they are asking for the balance asap and i dont know what to do i had some of the money but i spend it in the mean time,i had a plumbing problem that needed to be sorted and ended up spending what i had,,everywhere i turn i am getting letters that the money is due now im in way over my head and feel like just driving my car into the river is there any way i can get this under control im so scared and depressed about this and i just wound out my house needs to be rewired and i have no money for that either any thoughts/advise so much appreciated thank you