I seriously doubt that many care. Any evidence to suggest otherwise? While there certainly are women who are that shallow, I've seen testimonials that go both ways, both aesthetically and sexually.
Regardless, however, he can still get it done if the woman he likes wants him circumcised. He cannot get back what he lost if the woman he likes prefers uncircumcised men.
How many men
willingly get circumcised? Reconstruction cannot give back what was lost.
There is also an aesthetic benefit to not getting circumcised as well. Since there are costs as well as risks, this leaves us with far more downside to being circumcised.
Certainly there could be, when he's sexually active. There are costs to the procedure, and risks as well.
Potential benefit does not outweigh these real costs and risks since that benefit may not be realized. As well, the possible benefit you are citing, aesthetics, is a small benefit indeed. What benefit does circumcision
at birth provide? Any and all benefit can still be acquired later in life, while the benefits of being uncircumcised can never be fully recontructed. Hardening of the head over that many years cannot be undone.
There are many potential benefits of leaving the penis as-is, as well. Part of the point is that you
do not know if there will be any real benefit, and there
absolutely are costs to sensitivity. It seems absurd to make the decision as you made it with the facts as they are.
You are not the one your son will be courting
Without any evidence that even a large minority prefer this, aesthetics seems slim justification for the loss of sexual feeling
Rare, certainly. With no real evidence to suggest that women in any large numbers actively
prefer this, is even a small risk worth it when the damage is potentially very large?
I don't think my "self-image" is what's wrong when it would have been my
parents that decided there was something wrong with my image. Besides, aesthetics don't mean much to me. Loss of sensitivity
would.
Since the majority of these are done at birth how would these men even know what more sensitivity would feel like?
If you are uncircumcised, you have the option of circumcision. A circumcised man cannot get back what was lost. Your son will not know which he prefers. You took that away from him.