Christians, help with same sex attraction?

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I am 15 years old, christian, and I am only physically attracted to males. I really just want to be attracted to women, I mean I dont understand why this has to happen to me, I mean I know plenty of people who have opposite sex attraction. I am just kind of mad about it, I will never do anything with a man because of my morals, and faith in god, but I just need some support. This is not a choice, it is really a battle for me,, I just want to be a normal adult without same sex attraction and with opposite sex attraction. I have been asking god for help but I just need support, being a teenager plus having this problem just makes everything worse, I appreciate all the answers
 
Hello I am a christian and a follower of the lord. My advice too you is to pray to god and ask for forgivness of your sins. I have the same problem I am only phsically attracted women but, I still have a boyfriend. I know these things seem overwhelming but you have to realize you are only human and you have to live for you. It is your choice eithier way. I suppourt love. I do not look at it as gay bi etc. I understand the ammendmants and I understand how they burned the city in the bible but listen you are YOU and if you start to have emotions like that you never know it could be a phase ? You never know. But I suggest praying and following your heart. I think you can decide for yourself.
 
I feel sorry for you, dude. You're just going to have to learn to accept who you are, despite your religion. I had a friend like this. When I knew him, he was in his forties, but he said that he had never been attracted to a woman. He also said that when he was a teenager, he found himself attracted to his male friends, and he didn't understand it. He was a christian also, but many might not call him a christian, because he acted on his homosexual tendencies.
 
Dude i give you so much credit for not doing anything with guys. God appriciates it to. Try getting some consuling. From what i know about people that arent attracted to women; somewhere along the line a women that is very important to them ex. mother left or said somthing to them or over time has just screwed them up and they have under lying resentment for women. If any of that is true not all women are like that and you need counsuling
 
If you cracked a Bible, you'd know exactly how you got to that reprehensible state. You served yourself instead of serving God, and you opened yourself up to vile affections. God hates f*gs, f*gs are worthy of death. That's the standard of God.
 
You cannot help the way your brain developed. There have been studies proving that homosexuals do NOT chose their sexual oreintation.

Someday, you'll find that you'd be happier if you didn't supress your attractions to other men.
 
Being Gays is totally chill. Just not to other christians. (your god doesn't exist, stop asking him for help)
 
Jesus said "Love ye one another."
And then, with a wink and a nod, he turned and said "Now whistle us a tune St. Matthew."
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Don't touch your own penis at night and when ever your in a conversation, stay on the side with more boys than girls.
 
If it is what feels right and normal to you, then so be it. Who says your morals or god forbid it?
 
YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT. Please learn to accept it, and ignore what other people say. There is no way to change your sexual orientation; scientists have CONCLUDED that it's biological and involuntary.

Since you're asking this question in the first place, you obviously live in a very religious family. When they find out you're gay, remember that they'll love you no matter what. If it really bothers you, you can always ask Jesus for forgiveness, but DON'T TRY TO CHANGE IT.
 
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