Christian help plz. Oral sex?

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My Girlfriend and i have been dating for about 15 months now and we are both christians. I am 18 and she is a 16. I find it very hard to wait until marriage for sex but i have recently settled for oral sex. we did it for the first time and i felt kind of guilty about it. Idk what to do, its hard to wait until marriage and is there something scriptural or that you have had from experience that could help me? should i feel guilty and distant from God when i do this? Is it in my head? thank you all.
 
It's all in your head, When you really think about it , isn't it obvious that there is no God? I wouldn't worry about it, have fun..Just pretend you were born into a non christian family, remember it was just luck of the draw that you were born into a religious home... You don't really think that you won the religion lottery and your religion is the absolute religion, it was luck of the draw and unlucky for you , you landed yourself in a religion with a bunch of rules.. but remember it isn't real anyway, so you can leave it behind and start living life with a new freedom.That's what I did.
 
It's a form of fornication. Oral sex is wrong before marriage, the same as sex. You just have to hold it in before you get married, and don't put yourself in those kinds of situations where you will be tempted to do them.

Far too often we focus on the “recreation” aspect of sex without recognizing the “re-creation” aspect. Yes, sex is pleasurable. God designed it that way, and He wants men and women to enjoy sexual activity (within the confines of marriage). However, the primary purpose of sex is not pleasure, but rather reproduction. God does not outlaw sex before marriage to rob us of pleasure, but to protect us from unwanted pregnancies and children born to parents who do not want them or are not prepared for them. Imagine how much better our world would be if God’s pattern for sex was followed: fewer sexually transmitted diseases, fewer un-wed mothers, fewer unwanted pregnancies, fewer abortions, etc. Abstinence is God’s only policy when it comes to sex before marriage. Abstinence saves lives, protects babies, gives sexual relations the proper value, and most importantly, honors God.

Oral sex and sex = same thing, just a different hole.
 
If u feel guilty then that is ur answer.
If eating cookies makes u feel guilty and distant from God then even though it is not wrong, then it is a problem for you.
 
Oral sex is sex. You might as well be doing the deed. No offense, but you're kidding yourselves if you think by "limiting" yourself to oral sex you're remaining chaste and pure.
I'm not a christian, and I'm no prude, but if you truly believe that sex is a "sin" you're still "sinning" in your own mind because you know settling for oral sex is a "technicality", and that's why you feel guilty.
 
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