Shinji Ikari, No Wai.
It wasn't his fault that his mom dies and his dad abandoned him.
And yes he whines, but he fights when he has to, and he has a conscience.
Don't worry, Asuka will fix him. Some of the fanfics about that pairing are just like that.
killing is bad, mkay.
(If anyone in NGE, is should be the bastard Gendo)