casual sex to long term relationship?

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Shontelle

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I really like this guy and connect with him on different levels, talk for hours and have good sex. He has come out of a long term relationship a few months ago, so I'm backed off because I don't want to pressure him but I would like to have a relationship with him in â€*he future. How do I transition?? I have very bad luck with men and seen to get in a casual sex thing with one guy at a time who I am faithful too etc then it gets stupid because I want more. I'm really into this man so I don't want to screw it up. Argh!!!!!!! Help????Any advice??
 
I have been in this situation a time too many. Men get distracted easily with the good sex and simplicity of the situation. I suggest you watch tough love and refrain from casual sex with anyone who is not trying to be a serious relationship with you. You deserve a committed bond before giving someone your body... your temple. Sex is like the merging of the souls. You feel closer to him after you are done , right ? Ask yourself , what do i want ? is he willing to give me that ?
 
are you a ex addict?
controll yourself girl.
your giving the guys what they wanted from you in the first place.
follow these rules of advise;
like the same things as him, hes always rite at almost everything,
be mysterious, smart, concervative, and un-preditable and he'll fall in love with you in one month.
 
As someone that was in your same shoes, you can't have casual sex with a guy and expect them to take you seriously. Once you put out, it's game over.
 
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