Casual sex: Is it possible?

[Yvonne Smythe]

In my experience, SOMEONE always gets attached. Lately, ive been with this guy - it was inicially supposed to be casual only - no strings. but the more we've done it the more ive started to like him. we are friends, we go out for dinner, watch movies - as friends only - but i can't get him out of my head. after the sex, he always wants to cuddle, wants me to spend the night, kisses my nose - what does this mean? if it was casual, wouldn't we jus get dressed and part ways?

 

[johnb693]

Sounds to me, a lot more than casual sex. And with something as intimate as sex, it's hard to not get attached, to each other.
As affectionate as he is, after the sex, wanting to stay the night, and all that cuddling, he doesn't want to leave.
And as you are getting to be closer friends as well and have a good time together, I think it's time you face the facts, You are way more than just friends.
I think he has a girlfriend, you, and you have a boyfriend, him.
Why fight it, unless, this isn't what you want. Trouble with emotions, and sex, they do tend to get all tangled up, don't they?