Crank1, try not to think about the monetary costs of the Ducati experience as a negative... think of every purchase as further enriching your life!!!...
... stay away from anything Ducati dealership and your enriching will be much more rewarding!!!
As for the Carbon Fibre, I've recently been liasing with Guido from Shift-tech.com, I'm sure he'll be posting on here to take a look at his stuff. I've ordered the following CF parts:
Front Fender
Rear Hugger
Belly Pan
Airbox Covers
Exhaust Heat Guard
Chain Guard
Key Guard
... oh, and a Ducati Corse gel sticker!!! (I think that's it ?!)
Being a member on here you'll be entitled to a 10% discount. I'm based in Australia and he's posted it all out to me for $48. Just checked actually and USPS says it's just left Miami.
He seems really on the ball and straight talks that he sells only the good sh#t, so I'll let you know in a few days what I think of the quality. I have very high expectations.
With regards to self installation, the above parts I believe I can install without any great fuss. The only item which may require a little more effort than removing a few screws will be the belly pan, but a couple of stands should make this a reasonably simple task.
The only CF part that I wasn't bothered about were the heel guards (I hear they can get wear&tear damage pretty easily), and the rear vents, where it's a bit of cut and shut with a little sealant to seal the deal.
Didn't bother with the CF dash cover as will probably get a tinted screen so wont see it anyway.
Happy shopping!