Can you trust a guy who is a cook and is around female waitresses all day?

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Andrea

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He owns the place...and if they are hiring he will get the chance to meet many potential waitresses etc.

He also says his Dads a huge flirt...

Would you trust this guy not to cheat? As his GF i wouldnt want to work for him as a waitress.
 
I think we should trust until there is a valid reason for no longer trusting, if you choose to work with him, let me tell ya's, you'll be putting yourself through too much, he has to be the boss and keep his employees content, you may read too much into it...hence creating major issues where they may or may not be warranted, no one likes to be under constant supervision, under a micro scope persay, believe me jealousy Kills relationships..be the loving and caring GF, not his mother or warden..."you'll" only drive him away , I had a BF that wouldn't let me go anywhere with out him, although I would never stray, I do need my time away :-) God Bless
 
Once upon a time I was a young single waitress, yet I never ended up dating anyone I worked with, and I was certainly looking.

I really think if a guy is going to cheat, he will find someone no matter his circumstances.
 
Whether or not a guy cheats has nothing to do with what his job is. It has to do with the guy and his trustworthiness.

If you don't trust him, then you probably shouldn't be with him. However, you should also consider that the trust issue may be your problem, not his.
 
He won't have time to have an affair and flirting always comes with the meal...to keep them coming back....Relax and enjoy your man....the waitresses are only concerned with their tips and are usually too tired as well....If something would go on, you would pick up on it right away..
 
Let's forget for the moment that this has nothing to do with this forum, and focus on the fact that he has the opportunity to meet MANY women on any given day at any given time in any given place.
If he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat, whether it's with a waitress or random woman he meets while he's getting fuel.
Sounds like the issue is your own insecurity and jealousy.
Grow up.
 
He won't have time to have an affair and flirting always comes with the meal...to keep them coming back....Relax and enjoy your man....the waitresses are only concerned with their tips and are usually too tired as well....If something would go on, you would pick up on it right away..
 
1. This is not an R&S question

2. Whether I would trust a guy not to cheat has absolutely nothing to do with where the guy works and who he works with, but everything to do with the guy and his character
 
Newsflash! Women work just about everywhere these days!

If he's into you, he won't cheat. If he isn't, he will.

Despite what peole say,my experience is that most men are able to think with the brain that Is NOT in side their pants
 
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