Okay the details. About 12 years ago my (now) husband's grandparents moved to a country in a different continent with their grown daughters. My husband 's family stayed behind. My father in law travels there and back for long periods to stay with them. (He and my mother in law got divorced 8 years ago) He also owns a nice house where we live.
The last time my father in law was going to visit his parents , my husband and I got married a month before he went. That was two years ago and he allowed us to move into his nice house and remodel and redecorate everything , get our own furniture and lock his in one of the rooms of the house.
So...flash forward to now. He's coming back in less than a month for what could be a 2-6 month visit/stay and he has nowhere to live. Of course he's not asking us to move out BUT he's gonna live with us.
It's a scary thought for me and while I appreciate all he's done for us in terms of having a great place to live in (one which we could've never afforded on our own), it's a scary though for me to live with him , just because I don't know how to manage the living arrangements and make up ground rules.
Throw in with this the fact that we both work very long hours, I'm also at school part time and he's coming right in the middle of my end of semester exams.
Any ideas will be appreciated.
Thank you.
The last time my father in law was going to visit his parents , my husband and I got married a month before he went. That was two years ago and he allowed us to move into his nice house and remodel and redecorate everything , get our own furniture and lock his in one of the rooms of the house.
So...flash forward to now. He's coming back in less than a month for what could be a 2-6 month visit/stay and he has nowhere to live. Of course he's not asking us to move out BUT he's gonna live with us.
It's a scary thought for me and while I appreciate all he's done for us in terms of having a great place to live in (one which we could've never afforded on our own), it's a scary though for me to live with him , just because I don't know how to manage the living arrangements and make up ground rules.
Throw in with this the fact that we both work very long hours, I'm also at school part time and he's coming right in the middle of my end of semester exams.
Any ideas will be appreciated.
Thank you.