can you have sex if your going through a miscarriage?

J

jane and baby girl

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I really don't get it....

Were you pregnant and have miscarried?
If you are pregnant and think you are miscarrying you need to see a Dr.

If you are miscarrying don't have sex.
 
I didn't and you shouldn't have sex when you are having a miscarriage. That's my personal opinion, but you should still go see a doctor if you are experiencing a miscarriage either way.
 
IF the test came up negative...what are your thoughts on WHY you're pregnant??? If the test came up negative,most likly you weren't pregnant. Heavy bleed and passing clots CAN just be part of a normal cycle. You Should see a dr,and have him test you for HCG hormone,because if you are indeed miscarrying,you may need to have a D&C done after,if your body doesn't pass everything. Since you never confirmed your pregnancy,what makes you think you're miscarrying?
 
If you don't believe you were ever pregnant, then your probably not having a miscarriage. Just a heavy period. Having sex is fine, you don't need to see a doctor. And by the way if you were having a miscarriage you would know, it is usually very pain-full and requires that you go to the hospital.
 
Sex is okay as long as you arent high risk or you doctor tells you other wise. Also you dont have to go to the doctor for questions like that..you can call your doctor or midwife.
 
i dont know if im having a miscarriage...i heard you would have clotting and a heavy flow...but i havent really had any clotting...i dont think. I took a pregnancy test last week and it said negative...but i had sex last night and was just making sure this is okay! I know most of you are gonna say to go see a doctor but im not gonna go pay money just so the doctor can tell me its normal and im fine.
 
if you were having a miscarriage you would know it.they are painful.even if you were having a miscarriage it would show as a positive for pregnancy on a test.no pain no positive result no miscarriage.i think your ok.if you were having a miscarriage the sex would be excruciatingly painful.plus having sex during a miscarriage leaves you at a very high risk of infection.but again it doesn't sound like your having one
 
What? Were you ever confirmed to be pregnant by test or by doctor? You may not have even been pregnant, let alone having a miscarriage. Have you had a period? Why would you be having sex if you thought you were in the middle of a miscarriage and not going to the hospital to be seen? Miscarriages usually take place over the course of a few hours. As for having sex during one, I would have thought that would be gross. Usually miscarriages hurt, cause cramping, and are fairly messy. I don't think it would harm you in any way, but I think you may have no clue what's going on with your own body; you sound very confused.
 
If you don't believe you were ever pregnant, then your probably not having a miscarriage. Just a heavy period. Having sex is fine, you don't need to see a doctor. And by the way if you were having a miscarriage you would know, it is usually very pain-full and requires that you go to the hospital.
 
Forgive me for saying this - but your question sounds quite ignorant and selfish.

Not going to the doctor because you think he/she will tell you it's "normal and you're fine" is absolutely the wrong answer. And having sex while possibly miscarrying? Bad idea. If you are pregnant and there is a chance of miscarriage, most doctors advise against sex (pelvic rest). Furthermore, if you are having a miscarriage and it's inevitable, sex during this time CAN cause infection and doctors advise against sexual activity for weeks after the miscarriage.

I personally feel like you seem nonchalant about the whole ordeal, and more concerned on whether or not you can keep having sex then anything. Which kind of sickens me, considering I've been through two miscarriages and was heartbroken each time.

I think the best thing you can do (for yourself, your partner(s), and your unborn children) is use a better method of birth control.
 
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