Can you do this with you husband when it comes to SEX?

[Niki]

I basically want to know if there are any other women out there like me, my husband goes to work as do i, he comes home, i've his dinner on the table, he has his dinner and goes to the shed working (no wise cracks, it not to get away from me he actually has a lot of work to do for people in the evening) we've also moved into our new house so if he's not working for others he's doing stuff around the house as do i, 85% of the house was done by myself, hiring all the guys from the blocklayer to the kitchen, getting all the calls, etc etc i still do plenty around the house but more inside like decorating, cleaning, etc i just want to let you know i've done my share in case anyone thinks im lazy and letting him do everything, my point is this, we're not long married but im not the type of girl who can go to be wait for the hubby to come in and jump on him, we see damn all of each other so i'd like to chat but he's a very very quiet person and does'nt do much talking, i really am not able to have sex most evenings as i think well im bored, i have'nt seen you and i have'nt talked to you and im not a sex machine, i feel we should be at it like rabbits since we're not long married but we're not and i know maybe im not making the effort but i really feel he's not either, its like he expects to walk in get into bed say nothing and have sex, no sorry just cant do that, am i on my own with this one or does anyone understand where im coming from??? I will try and talk to him but i'd like advise on how to broach it, he's one of these guys who'd rather bury their head in the sand than face things head on, i've tried bringing other things up before like giving me a hand with the house and wedding but got no where, he clams up and thinks im having a go when i dont be so its going to be hard to bring this up, then i do think well why should i be the one always trying to sort things out why cant he for once bring it up and talk to me about it and maybe i should because it might teach him to talk about things if theres a problem instead of running away pretending its not there