Can women survive a marriage without sex?

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I'm currently married to a really great girl who honestly treats me better and cares for me more than any other girl I ever dated long term or short. But I find myself in a not so great situation. I am not attracted to her in a physical/sexual way, the side effect of her not being like anyother girls I dated is that she also is just "NOT MY TYPE" as far as physical attraction goes. I knew this before I got married, but cared about her in a different way. We still do have sex occasionally but even in those times its VERY VVVVERY hard to last very long or even want to have sex in the first place. She usually starts the whole thing leading up to "it". I want to stay married but understand sex is a big part of any relationship.. atleast for men usually, so my question is.. Do you think it is possible for a woman to stay in a loving relationship without ever having sex? I want to ask her if its ok if we don't anymore... but I'm afriad it will end the marriage :(

As for any back up history on myself as there may be questions.. I used to LOVE having sex so its not anything like that, I am NOT gay in anyway. Its just that I felt marrying someone who I had something deeper with was more important than how hot she looked in a mini skirt... NOT that I dont' miss that lol... cause somedays trust me I do! ANYWAYS PLEASE HELP!
 
Ugh no women need sex just as much as men. At least some of us do. Can I ask what makes her not your type? Is she too skinny or bigger then you like? Not vivacious enough? Is it something she can do to become your type such as hair color? I know in my marriage if I ask my hubby to cut his hair short or shave his chest, he does it for me. And if he asks me to wear my hair down or to wear provocative clothes, I don't mind. I want to look good for, first of all myself and secondly my hubby. So maybe talk to her, but be gentle. If its a weight issue I suggest you just maybe ask her if she wants to start playing tennis together. Then she is burning calories and you two are spending time together. I love tennis and you burn a ton of calories while playing it.
 
wait.. women use sex to trap u into marriage... she'll love you and celebrate if you tell her she doesn't have to have SEX anymore!!!
 
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