Okay, well here's the story... Me and my boyfriend that i'm deeply in love with have been trying to have sex. But apparently, we're just not successful. Everytime we get in the mood to try, it just hurts soo badly that we just stop. And he's such a good guy about it. He's not pressuring me or anything and he really is fine about it, it's just that when the time comes, and we REALLY wanna do it, i wanna be successful without it hurting as it currently does. Also, we read once that he should finger me first. And we have tried that several times, and everytime is hurt.. Untill finally, one time he used only one finger and he did it gentle, and it didnt hurt at all. i didnt even feel it. But was i suppose to bleed? B/c if he fingered me successfully does that mean that it should have "popped my cherry??" --Haha, i kno there is a lot here, but please someone help me to answer all my questions the best you can! :] thank you!!
