Can I live a luxurious, playboy lifestyle, but be faithful to one woman?

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Edward X.

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know this sounds stupid, but I am 17, and I am very sophisticated and cultured, and even adults tell me so. I am sort of like a Renaissance man/playboy and I am into music, sports cars, art, history, etc. I want to live "the good life", sort of like a James Bond-type life, but minus the PKK's and escaping assassins constantly.

I love girls and want to have sex with at least several of them. The problem is, I would feel bad if I got married and cheated on my wife. I want to have many lovers in my life, but that would be impossible if I want to stay out of trouble. I know I want to get married, but I am stuck.

I mean, all of these guys who I admire for the lifestyles that they lived (like John F. Kennedy) usually were married, but they had several mistresses on the side. I feel the need to be like my role models, which would include having several women in my life.
 
I could tell you "grow up" or whatever but maybe an advice that fits you more: life the live you think you like as long as you want, and don't get married. If you enjoy it, there is no reason to get married. But maybe there comes a point where you get tired and want to settle down. Then you might be ready for THE ONE.
 
Grow up! No, you cannot have the life you think you want and only have one woman in it. She will not be worth anything if she has to share...
 
that is my life style. "the good life" by Kanye West, that is how i set my lifestyle standard. this particular life style does require you to be able to sweat money, and use the bank as your shower.
 
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